When we see the trap but we willingly fall into it still..

In some relationships, we fall into a trap despite all the warnings we see. It's easy to think that you can give up everything that defines you just to gain the acceptance of the one you are in love with, it's all good and fine and nothing will change your mind because you feel that as long as you are with someone you want. Everything will be just fine, but if it's not always fine then you are just setting yourself up for a really painful ending, because you lose who you were all along and will be lost constantly trying to figure out what someone else wants. But not what you want, if someone loves you as you are. Then you would never need to change or give up anything.