Truth hurts less later

Sometimes there are those moments when we ask ourselves why we find ourselves hurting time and again, then it follows with why did we not see it coming. How did we miss all the signs and how we should of known better, the truth is. The signs were there all along and the words were all said, we just tend to ignore them because we prefer to hear what we want over what we don't. The truth sucks, but it hurts so much less in the long run.